are you a brave truth-teller ready to use your voice for positive change?

Have you experienced the desperate feeling of powerlessness that forced you to take your power back — personally and/or collectively — and healed, transformed, or created something amazing and want to tell the world about it?

Have you dreamed of becoming a published author without the hassle of all the work?

Yes? Then this anthology is for you.

People have had it. They are pissed. And we are the courageous ones to talk about it!

Through your personal story of perceived powerlessness and your willingness to feel your anger, transmute it into healing energy, and construct a better life for yourself and others, you will offer a motivational path forward for people to turn their pain into purpose and fear into freedom.

Join me! I’d love to have you.

Projected publication date Sept. 2027

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝘀𝘂𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘆𝗲𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿.

It manifests as grief, frustration, hopelessness, despair, and loneliness, yet underneath these more acceptable emotions is always anger.

These women feel caged, boxed in, and powerless to do anything to break through the shackles which society, systems, their families, the workplace, even spouses have put them in.

This anthology (and movement) is for you if you have experienced feelings of powerlessness surrounding the following and 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁:

A medical diagnosis
Infertility/miscarriage
A sick child
The death of a loved one/child
Your own or a family members addiction or mental illness
A physically ill family member/spouse
Been a part of an oppressive religious group
Physical or sexual abuse
Narcissistic partner/spouse
Other people’s judgment
The patriarchy
The Mother Wound
The government
Corporate America/Big Business
The food we eat
The healthcare system

And so. much. more.

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙗𝙤𝙤𝙠 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣-𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙝𝙪𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙚𝙨...𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙫𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚𝙨 𝗺𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣!

Have you done the hard work, ventured into the depths of your emotions and healed something deep (possibly ancestral) and used the process as a springboard for personal and collective change?

If so, I want to hear about it and so does the world!

JOIN ME ON AN IMMERSIVE RETREAT & WRITE YOUR CHAPTER IN A WEEKEND!

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“Allow yourself to be loved when you hurt. Then allow yourself to become love. Then go love others.”

— From Trust Yourself to Be All In

“…uplifting energy...a clear hope for the world.”

Self-Publishing Review

A Boundless Quest for Emotional Freedom and Soul Evolution

Everyone leaves you or hurts you. This false myth of generational family dysfunction, compounded through trauma, appeared frighteningly true to Amanda the moment her brother overdosed and died. Devastated, she shined up the emotional armor she wore to protect herself from pain and soldiered on. But a decade of self-reflection and personal growth in 12-step recovery could not save her from herself. Attempting to destroy everything around her, including her troubled marriage, she experienced a spiritual awakening that radically transformed deeply engrained lies about love, loss, and connection. Lies she didn’t even know she believed.

Trust Yourself to Be All In: Safe to Love and Let Go is a pragmatic yet soulful inspirational memoir delivering uncompromising self-love that heals deep wounds. Amanda’s revealing, thought-provoking narrative will guide you to find comfort in your emotions and meaning in your suffering, while organically bridging an inseparable, trustworthy connection with self, others, and the universe.

Yes! I’m ready to experience total emotional freedom!

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WINNER OF THE 2023 CIPA EVVY & BOOKFEST GOLD AWARDS & THE 2024 LITERARY TITAN GOLD AWARD!

WINNER OF THE 2023 CIPA EVVY & BOOKFEST GOLD AWARDS & THE 2024 LITERARY TITAN GOLD AWARD!

Awards & Recognitions

Trust Yourself to Be All In is the proud recipient of 9 exceptional awards, Amazon Bestseller and #1 New Release!

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Reviews

“This memoir is a courageous act of full disclosure, a soul-cleansing the author encourages her readers to replicate in their own way to build trust in themselves and others, noting: ‘When you heal, I heal, and when we heal, the world heals.”

BlueInk Review

“Suggestions for viewing relationships, change, growth, and healing in a different way offer not only examples and how to notes but explore the 'whys' of more positive pathways and results.”

— D. Donovan, Senior Reviewer, Midwest Book Review

“…an unflinching account of her life and the mistakes that led her to some dark places, eventually finding her way back when she confronts her feelings head-on and works toward forgiveness, self-compassion, and self-love.”

— Readers’ Favorite, 5-Star Review

“…I felt like I was curling up with a friend, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets, my fears, my pain, and my joy. You will experience everything in this book... and come out on the other side more embodied and ready for this journey called life.”

— Rea Frey, award-winning, bestselling author, and CEO of Writeway

“…this polished and powerful book is recommended for readers looking for innovative ways to lift themselves out of modern malaise, which is so endemic to the current moment.”

Self-Publishing Review

“Mixing Flanagan's story with her sincere advice is a refreshing approach. It's evident she speaks from experience, and her style offers readers the chance to personalize her wisdom for their own lives.”

— BookLife Prize

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Press & Published Articles

trust yourself to be all in

  • “After a decade of self-reflection and personal growth in 12-step recovery, she experienced a spiritual awakening that radically transformed deeply engrained lies about love, loss, and connection.”

    City Lifestyle Magazine

    “A Story to Tell”

  • “It’s not a matter of avoiding pain, it’s about knowing you can be present for it, and trusting yourself to have your own back.”

    Get Griefy Magazine

    “Grief is a Gift: A Personal Narrative Plus 5 Principles to Set Yourself Free”

  • “Change is a natural and unavoidable part of life, and you have the power to use this challenging time to help you grow.”

    HeartLight Center Blog

    “How Relationships Change After Loss”